What bullying actually is
Three things have to be true for it to be bullying: harm, on purpose, and repeated (or threatened to be). One mean comment is mean. Repeated targeted meanness is bullying.
Types of bullying
- · Verbal: insults, name-calling, threats
- · Social: spreading rumors, excluding, getting others to gang up
- · Physical: hitting, pushing, breaking things
- · Cyber: mean messages, fake accounts, screenshots used to shame
What it does inside the body
Stress hormones flood the body. Sleep gets bad. Focus drops. Long-term bullying changes parts of the brain that handle stress and trust. Bullying is a HEALTH issue, not just a feelings issue.
Bystanders are the biggest lever
Research shows bullying stops within 10 seconds when a bystander steps in — about 50% of the time. Not perfect. But powerful.
Key takeaways from this module
- Bullying = repeated + intentional + harmful.
- It’s a health issue, not just feelings.
- Bystanders are the biggest lever.
- Silence helps the bully.